Proximity’s Unfortunate Consequence for Peripherals to the Writer’s Gaze

There you are enjoying the advantages of not being accountable and then a writer moves in next door.  At first you think, “Oh, this will be interesting…to have an artist type in the community,” and then you realize writers write.  More importantly, writers stand up for the weak, abused, and disadvantaged.

Suddenly, you start to hear how divisive your words are, and you pause.  You start a sentence and pause.  Why?  Because the writer just overheard you.

Monkey Speak No EvilIt’s true.  Friends of writers understand this aspect intimately, and have long accepted “Whatever they say will be held against them.”  But typically there are no deal breakers in their personality.  By virtue of being around writers all the time they’ve come to exist in the world in a genuine and compassionate way.  They know writers are intelligent and understand context and begin to trust us to not recount a situation outside of the space it was experienced.

I write from personal experience.  I write fiction.  Not memoir or non-fiction.  But what I’ve found is that to make fiction unique and your own, writing from personal experience is the best way to capture powerful and memorable moments.

Skeletons Speak No EvilMy first novel, which is in the revision phase right now, is about 90% true.  In fact, it’s so true all I had to do was change names and alter a few personalities.  Scenes are arranged to maintain a story arch and to create dramatic action, but every scene is based on truth, based on a real experience.  Sometimes you live through a series of events and, as a writer, you can’t believe your unfortunate and fortunate luck.  It is so terrible and magnificent, simultaneously, that you say to yourself, “This is playing out like a novel.”  Then a year after you’ve left the situation, you have distance enough to write about it.  That’s what happened to me.  It was a hard situation to live through, but worth every word on the page.

So if you find yourself in proximity to a writer, don’t be surprised if you end up fictionalized among the pages.  And if you don’t want to be a villain in fiction, then don’t be one in real life.

 

(Works Cited:  Images were borrowed from PxHere and Pixabay)

20 thoughts on “Proximity’s Unfortunate Consequence for Peripherals to the Writer’s Gaze

    1. Thank you Audrey. Thank you for stopping by. Writing can be complicated business. Especially for those in proximity. But I think they secretly like that my mind is in auto record.

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      1. I admire poets. I read poetry often and have a BFA in Creative Writing. But poetry is hard for me to write. I love the abstraction and symbolism. To have the power to create your own code. It’s admirable. My arts education has done me well to recognize creative power. Thank you for sharing your words with us.

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      2. This is a beautiful admission and lovely affirmation, Oscar. Thank you. I adore writing poetry, however, I’m always learning. I’ve dreamt of having a special language or code with others who understand what it is to feel. Blogging helps. I’m envious of your ability to go after what you’re passionate about and achieve. My BA is in a similar background. I look forward to following your posts.

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